Sometimes (or most of the times) we including me judge people by their cover. I can't help being annoyed with a recent conversation with my friend.
Me : it's okay, I like what I'm doing now...
Friend : good, well anyway if you don't have a job, you have your father right?
Me : speechless
My God, I was judged by my cover..!! Yes, I do still have my father who still can support me (Alhamdulillaah), but that doesn't mean I don't need to work..!!!! So, what to do if you were judged by your cover? I'm trying to calm down and try to think positive. Maybe my friend didn't mean what he said. Maybe he meant it as a joke.
One thing I learned from this is it's time for us to put ourselves in other person's shoes (reminds me of what Aa Gym said). What we mean as joke, we don't know what others might think.
Remember...your mouth is your tiger :)